Be honest and tell her that you would love to meet a girl with her qualities. If her response makes it obvious she wants to stay in the friend zone, it won’t feel like rejection because you didn’t ask her directly.”Also, on a personal note (did I mention I have a lot of experience in this area? If she’s not giving you an obvious sign that she’s interested, then she’s probably not.It sucks, but it’s better to know as soon as possible so you can move forward.I think often times when friends become lovers, the dating phase is skipped over because you know each other well enough that the “first date” often feels more like the fifteenth.
But if she’s someone who you’re just curious about (a.k.a you wanna bang), I’d leave her alone and go for the pretty stranger at the bar.There’s a difference between getting along as friends and connecting as lovers.Dating will help with that, while also making it way less intense for the both of you. “You already know that you have fun with this person, you know a lot about them and you feel comfortable with them,” Nicole says.I mean, what wedding doesn’t have a bride or groom, or both, proclaiming, “I’m so lucky I married my best friend! We all want the comfort and security that a friendship provides us along with a romantic relationship that keeps us hot and bothered. Well, we’re not going to lie to you: you risk losing everything. “As soon as romantic feelings are involved, your friendship changes.You risk losing your friend if you break up,” Nicole says. It’s hard to undo feelings and have it not be awkward right after.” Yep, it’s pretty hard to ever go back from seeing each other’s bathing suit parts and being cool after all the exchanging of feelings and bodily fluids.