It’s the biggest mistake women make, and you need to stop it – right now!– and start dating many men at the same time until you have the commitment you want from the man who is right for you.Here’s why: NO MORE NEEDY VIBE THAT PUSHES MEN AWAYWhen you have all your hopes and dreams wrapped up in any one guy, it’s natural to fear losing him…and losing you.

When we close off our options with other men too soon, we actually sabotage our ability to get the commitment and intimacy we so desire.

The chemistry we feel on a first date needs to be maintained with a second date, third date, fourth date and fifth date in close succession.

Once we start spacing our dates with a prospect two weeks or longer apart, the momentum with that person can be lost and is sometimes never regained.

Instead, keep your options open to keep your sanity and remind him that you are a prize to be won.

When you stop over-investing too quickly, you’ll start getting the kind of affection and attention you crave.