The experience of sex is so personal, and everyone you talk to will have experienced sex differently in small or big ways. Here are some things from my own experience with sex that might help. From your letter, I get the idea you’re looking for real advice, more than just a reassurance that sex is good.
Do you have any recommendations for basic resources/literature? As mentioned before I really do appreciate your approach to motherhood especially regarding tricky subjects such as this.
I know there are people, who for one reason or another, struggle with having a happy sex life.
Perhaps we’ll hear some of their perspectives in the comments.
I’ve had sex thousands of times and I’m still learning stuff (there’s always some new trend or new term I’ve never heard of before).
So keep asking questions, and don’t feel embarrassed about it.