By catching problems early enough, you can overcome these challenges before they take on insurmountable proportions. Taking your partner for granted to an unhealthy degree.As relationships mature, there’s a tendency to assume that it’s fine to let the normal niceties of life slip and slide.If it seems as though yours aren't working as well as you'd like them to, it's possible that with some minor adjustments you can get things back on track.
Your partner may never even find out that you’ve been tattling, but the fact that you’ve done so can put your relationship in jeopardy nevertheless.Now let’s say also that it’s unlikely that your relative and your partner’s boss would ever meet. In addition, what if your relative forgets that this is a secret and mentions it in conversation?Or, even worse case scenario, what if the secret leaks out on Facebook through someone’s oversharing?You might start to worry about having opened your mouth and over time start to feel guilty and anxious, emotions that can become troubling and problematic over time. Complaining about your partner to everyone except your partner.We all can imagine ways to remake our long-term partners.