When parents place conditions on their affection for their children (only expressing love if children "earn it" through certain behaviors and living up to the parents' expectations), children begin to distort the memories of experiences that leave them feeling unworthy of their parents' love. 3: Formulations of the Person and the Social Context. Unconditional love, on the other hand, helps to foster congruence. Incongruence happens when reality does not match up to our self-concept.Rogers believed that incongruence has its earliest roots in childhood.Now, as Jerry Lee Lewis and Myra arrived in London, a storm of outrage erupted here, too.And instantly the fashionable Westbury Hotel in London’s Mayfair, into which The Killer’s retinue was booked, found itself besieged by competing armies of fans, the Press, police and outraged citizens.But buttoned-up, respectable, repressed Fifties Britain had never come across the real thing before.
Social identity includes the groups we belong to including our community, religion, college, and other groups.
Legendary: Their marraige portrayed in 1989 film Great Balls Of Fire, with Dennis Quaid as Jerry and Winona Ryder as Myra So, when the music swept the world a couple of years earlier, teachers, preachers, parents and pundits alike had been quick to fulminate against the youthful, on-stage gyrations of Elvis Presley, describing them as obscene, and to read into the lyrics of rock songs a lewd carnality which was probably accurate but being missed by most young fans.
Up to this point, however, most of the outrage against rock had happened in America.
Goodness gracious, as the man himself was wont to sing. In this way began one of the most extraordinary episodes in the history of rock music — and, let’s face it, there have been quite a few.
Right from the beginning, rock and roll music had been soaked in scandal, perhaps not too surprisingly when it’s remembered that the actual words "rock and roll" had been, in black American nightclubs, a euphemism for sexual activity long before they became associated with music.