How often has free mixing between the sexes (men and women) in educational establishments, workplaces or elsewhere, been the cause of temptation and widespread evil!The one who never spoke on the basis of his own whims and desires (i.e., the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) spoke the truth when he said: “I have not left behind me any fitnah (trial) that is more harmful to men than woman.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5096) and Muslim (2740).If you stay in this mixed school, there is the fear that this may lead to bad consequences, for the one who grazes his flocks around a sanctuary will soon transgress upon it.You have to look for a school where you will be able to find what you want, without exposing yourself and your religious commitment to danger and things that may lead to your doom, even if that means that you have to study without attending the school (e. If that is not possible, and no school in your country is free of mixing, then you must adhere to the Islamic teachings of lowering the gaze, and not getting carried away when talking to women.
But if madhiy (prostatic fluid) is emitted because of thinking about desires or because of looking, then in this case it is obligatory to wash the penis and testicles, and to pour water over whatever has gotten onto one’s clothes.
Thirdly: The Muslim must strive to control himself and make himself lower his gaze as much as he can.
If his gaze happens to fall on a woman who is not permissible for him, without him intending to do that, then this is forgiven, but he is instructed to avert his gaze after that.
So do I lose ghusl if I just see the girls butt and think sexual things? I know it's haram to think of the girl sexually but I don't do anything further than think about it. I don't do anything, like masterbating or Anything, I definitely don't do that because its a HUGE sin.
I don't talk to the girl, touch the girl, masterbate to the girls picture or anything. I try to look away and it works but sometimes I think of the girl sexually.